







a blog about being a mama and wife










VIDEO: Isabel holding Dunkan's hand while she walks
VIDEO: Dunkan cutting down the tree and Zach watching intently
We had a great time. We love the tradition of cutting down a Christmas tree. We really miss the snow, but at least now it is cold!









Isabel after trick or treating and the ONLY picture I got of Dunkan. By this age they totally ignore their mom with a camera. Anyway, Dunkan was a Chick Magnet (see below)

The Magnet...Made by mama and no pattern! (I can't believe it actually worked!) He wore it around his neck.
The Chicks! He had 4 chicks that were stuck to the magnet. Then he just dressed studly!
Zach and his 6 shooters. Yeah... Tom DID buy him caps.

We have a Trunk or Treat at Church. We all decorate our trunks and then the kids trick or treat from trunk to trunk. They hand out prizes for decorations and we won this year! We didn't have much Halloween stuff, so we went with Christmas. Tom even tracked down a Santa suit! Ofcourse, it was 75 degrees and he was pretty hot. Poor guy. He really wanted to win! LOL!

I dressed up as a hippy and as I am always behind the camera, there is no picture. The running joke was everyone asking me why I didn't dress up! I guess I am just too "Hippy" to start with!
Enjoy and Happy Belated Halloween!

(From left to right: Me, our friend Carolyn, and Margaret)
The doctors say she shouldn't have even made it to the hosital alive, much less be doing as well as she is doing. Tom and our good friend Dan were able to go up and give her a blessing almost immediately after it happened. Through them, God performed a miracle. That is the only logical explanation.
I am overwhelmed. I just want to cry. I want to curl up in bed next to her in the hospital and stroke her hair, tell her I love her, and that everything will be alright. I know I cna't so I am trying to keep busy at home. The more I do, the less I think. I am tired though.
She woke up tonight and seemed pretty aware. She asked where I was. That just killed me. I am at home holding down the fort. I should have been there with her. Doug (her hubby) told her that I wanted to be there and that I was at home taking care of her kiddos. I know that comforts her, but it doesn't help me!
I am spending tomorrow at the hospital. She is scheduled for her surgery first thing. I want to be there when she comes out of recovery.
The worst about all this... I can't even cry on the shoulder of my best friend. Normally I would call and she would be there to listen and love me. Sigh.
Tom has been amazing. He is great at things like this. He has been helping and supporting me and spent all of today at the hospital with Doug. Dunkan has been a great help too.
We'll get through this. One awful day at a time.



